why work with me?
I began this journey a decade ago when I walked into my first yoga class. I felt the mind-body connection and was immediately called to dive deeper. I took more and more classes until finally I signed up for my 300hr yoga teacher training. I studied different modalities of movement, breath work and mindfulness and embarked on my journey as a space holder. Since then I’ve studied somatic trauma therapy, somatic sex work, neurodivergence, somatic experiencing, embodiment and so much more.
Somatic experiencing helped me heal from eating disorders, sexual trauma, and abusive relationships. It's helped me learn about my needs as an Autistic ADHD-er now and I'm wildly passionate about using my hard-earned wisdom to help my clients better support themselves and thrive.
I know this is the work I’m here to do and that’s why I’m so passionate about continuing to learn and continuing to deepen my connection to my intuition and the ancient wisdom that courses through my veins.
what you get
You get to live your biggest life! You get to be reminded of your wholeness, you get to be held in a safe space to explore and dive into your shadows.
We’ll dive into all of the beautiful multifaceted parts of who you are and work together to unlearn the bullshit, reconnect with your body, learn about your needs, and clear space for your authentic self to grow and thrive.
I want you to have more in your life.
More play. More pleasure. More orgasms. More support. More understanding. More freedom. More abundance. More ease. More flow. More peace. More love.
Sexual Transmutation
1:1 Container to heal the way you relate to your sexuality. I’m here to hold space for you to unlearn societal conditioning, reclaim your sensual & sexual magic, and learn to tune in and hear your body’s wisdom.
Intuitive Eating
1:1 Food Freedom & Healing Your Relationship with Your Body. To create this change we will work together for either a 1 off session or for an 8 week container to dive deep into your healing.
hi there.
It’s a pleasure to virtually meet you. I’m Alexandra, feel free to call me Lexi or Sluttuyforserotonin (I respond to all of the above).
a little about me
Healing is a lifelong journey and I’ve learned a lot.
- I healed my relationship with my body, overcame an eating disorder, stopped binge eating without any form of restriction, and learned to eat intuitively and feel safe around food.
- I cured my vaginismus and learned to reclaim my inner sexual & sensual goddess after several sexual traumas.
- I fell in love with the ebbs and flows of my cycle and have learned to use them to my advantage.
- I released my shame and embraced my kinks with open arms.
- I learned I'm not anxious and depressed but am Autistic and ADHD and needed a very different form of support.
self-discovery
All of the above started a decade ago when I began my journey to self-discovery, personal growth, and somatic healing, I really thought I had it all figured out and one day I woke and realized something was off. I didn’t feel aligned and hadn’t been for some time.
I realized the relationship I was in was stifling my voice and didn’t have space for me to shed old versions and embody new versions of myself and I made the hardest decision of my life. I chose to leave the comfort of an 8-year relationship and choose myself.
A year later I got my ADHD diagnosis which led to my Autism diagnosis and sent me down a two-year hyper-fixation on all things neurodivergence and how to unmask and support myself and my clients.
I love taking all the incredible lessons I've learned and using them along with a plethora of somatic practices to help my clients' learn how to support themselves better.
